Yuri Tsukikage (
cure_moonlight) wrote in
digital_dive2012-04-24 01:34 am
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What do you do when...
Hn.
How do I put this...
No matter how hard you keep trying, everything turns out the wrong way?
Hn.
How do I put this...
No matter how hard you keep trying, everything turns out the wrong way?

[Registers as Silverwing's D-Comm]
When your actions keep having the same results... it may be time to change your actions.
Science teaches that an experiment done the same way will always have the same results. It's change that induces change.
Of course, without knowing more, I can't offer any better advice...
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Hmn.
I've not been given very many options, unfortunately...
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The worst situations are entered into because someone believes there's no other way to do things.
There are always other ways. Some are unpleasant, some are crazy, and some may seem counter-productive.
But there is always more to a situation than can be seen, and you're never as trapped as you think you are. Take a second, breathe, and look at what you're about to get yourself into. Then do the last thing that's expected of you.
Sometimes, the best way to win is not to play.
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All I've been able to do is keep fighting...
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I won't dispute that there's a time and a place for conflict... but it sure sounds as though you're getting pushed further than you need to be.
If you don't want to get into it further, all I can offer is the assurance that there are other ways. And it REALLY sounds like you need one.
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Not fighting... would simply mean giving up.
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I'm not telling you to lie back and take it. I'm telling you that if your current tactics aren't working, then you need to withdraw and reexamine things, find another approach.
There are always other ways to fight.
Even pacifism is just another tactic. Sometimes, an effective one.
It's served me well on several occasions where raising a blade would have meant defeat.
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Pacifism... would not work.
It would only mean I die quicker.
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What are you trying to accomplish? Generally, I mean. You don't need to tell me any specifics.
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I can save so many other people, but not those closest to me, those tied the tightest to what and who I am. I never can.
It is ... frustrating.
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Or sees you as an enemy?
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Not impossible.
How far are you willing to go? I have general answers for you, but... they're not easy. Not by a long shot.
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[Registers as Silverwing's D-Comm] [Locked now]
In defense of others, or your own life? Certainly. But only to that extent.
When you have the chance to strike, you let it pass. If the choice comes down to hurting them, or letting them hurt you... You take the latter.
You try to talk, even when it falls on deaf ears. You try to understand the reasoning, even when it seems beyond all possible comprehension. Find out what you did to deserve the enmity. Find out why your words are going unheeded. Find out WHY redemption is so far beyond this person's consideration... and start fighting the causes, rather than the person.
If you fight the person, you throw away everything you're trying to accomplish. An olive branch in one hand is easy to overlook when the other hand is holding a gun, after all.
When you need help, ask for it. And you WILL need it, I know.
It's easy to do things with violence, but not so easy to turn the other cheek. If it were, you'd see more people doing it.
The name is Silverwing, by the way. As I said... when you need help, ask for it. I'll come to watch your back.